As a kid, I loved YMCA-style sports. I have never been much of an athlete, but when it comes to being a “participant” I excel. So I preferred the games where everyone gets a reward.
When it comes to spiritual service, everyone gets a reward. In Matthew 6:3-4 Jesus indicates two different rewards that come from giving to the needy. Those who give in order to be honored by others get the reward of being honored by others. Those who give in secret receive a “secret” reward from God.
For some of us, holding out for the reward from heaven may be a challenge. It feels good to have people like us and think we are good.
Jesus does not say that we can have a little of each reward. We need to pick what prize we want.